The word “you” shouldn’t be used, and I learned the I statement to have your feelings stated, then when, then because, and finally a want. So, to correct this, an appropriate statement would be “ I feel misunderstood when I am treated like a child because my curfew is set for 9:00 pm on the weekends and I want to be seen as your equal and as though you are not superior to me. You can use the word “you” after stating you want something out of the other person.
