so I don't really understand how to match them up, maybe if you could upload a photo I might be able to understand better. This is what I think might be the answer but if you make the question more clear than I can comment to tell u if this is right or wrong. So A (is controlling) matches with Mike is jealous and doesn't let Kat talk to her friends. B (Plays the victim) matches with Caleb is very sensitive, The things people say always offend him. C (Is overly critical) is John talks about everything he thinks Gena does incorrectly, and D (is physically abusive) is Leslie slaps Archie when he upsets her.
Hope this helped!