Answer: Irony is often defined as when the opposite of what is expected occurs. In Emily Dickinson's poem, she states that she is a nobody, and seems to be quite happy about it. This is ironic, because you expect most people to want to be considered important, to be acknowledged, to be known and admired. But, ironically, Dickinson seems to enjoy being a nobody. That is where the main irony lies. Dickinson states proudly, "I'm nobody!" and rejoices that there is another nobody that she has met, so that "there's a pair of us." She says that being admired, noticed, and well-known is "like a frog" who croaks its name "the livelong day/to an admiring bog." She finds outgoing people who are well known to be as obnoxious as a loud frog croaking away, forcing people to hear it, whether they want to or not. She would rather just be a quiet nobody. Not very many people probably really long to be the quiet person in the background, so it is ironic that Dickinson does, and proudly writes a poem about the fact that she does.
Another possible irony exists in the fact that by writing a poem, she has become a somebody. Writing a poem about being a nobody automatically draws attention to her, and makes her known. So, through touting the fact that she likes being a nobody, her nobody status is lost.
