The decision to getting married is definitely a personal decision. Each one has the right to choose whatever each one considers good for their own life. However, when we talk about marriage, we are talking about choosing someone who is going to be with us for the rest of the life or that is how is supposed to be. Share our life with someone also involves all our relatives especially if we have children that is why is important that Bens Mom explains to him why she took the decision to marry Larry. She should say something like this: It is true that I know him only a few months ago but in that time I learned to know him and I know he is an excellent person, he supports me, he is responsible, worker, honest, he loves you and for me that is the most important thing and respects us as a family.