1) Standing up to my teacher. I have gotten into trouble a couple of times for standing against my teacher when what they were stating was clearly incorrect, even thought I contradicted in a political manner I was punished for "disrespecting".
3) when I came out to my family as trans. I had troubled childhood growing up so trying to explain my dysphoria to my family made me absolutely terrified that they would think that I was lying for attention and that my feelings were invalid.