can someone pls help me find 3 good explanations that will connect the group in the giver to a group in today’s society. the first quote is “ And remember last year, when you became a seven you were so happy to get your folded jacket.” the second quote is “The front buttoned up jacket was the first sight of independence,the first very visible symbol of growing up.” the last quote is “Usually at the morning ritual when the family never told dreams Joans didn’t contribute much.”